Separation & Divorce

One home. Two futures. Let's sort the mortgage.

Separating is hard enough without a bank making the house feel impossible. Whether you're keeping it, buying out your ex, or splitting the equity to both move on, there's usually a cleaner path than people expect. Handled discreetly, and on your timeline.

The big question is almost always the home. Can one of you afford to keep it? How do you fairly pay out the other person's share? A regular refinance caps you at 80% of the home's value, which often isn't enough to settle an equalization. That's where most people get stuck and assume the answer is sell.

It usually isn't. There's a specific spousal buyout program in Canada that treats this differently: it lets the spouse keeping the home refinance up to 95% of its value to pay out the other party, far beyond a normal refinance. Used correctly, it lets one of you stay, the other walk away with their share, and both of you close this chapter cleanly. I structure these quietly and carefully, because the timing and the paperwork matter.

This is probably you if…

You want to keep the family home and buy out your ex's share.
You need to refinance to pay out an equalization, and 80% isn't enough.
You're the spouse leaving and want your equity out cleanly.
Your separation agreement is being drafted and the numbers need to work first.
One income now has to carry a mortgage that two used to.
You just need a clear, discreet read on what's actually possible.

Helpful reading while you decide

A dedicated separation guide is on the way. In the meantime, these cover the moving parts of a buyout.

Questions I get a lot

Can I keep the house if I buy out my ex?

Often, yes, even if a normal refinance wouldn't stretch far enough. The spousal buyout program lets the spouse keeping the home borrow up to 95% of its value specifically to pay out the other party. The deciding factor is usually whether one income can carry the new payment, which I can tell you quickly.

How is a spousal buyout different from a regular refinance?

A standard refinance maxes out at 80% of the home's value. A spousal buyout, with a signed separation agreement, can go up to 95% because the extra funds are earmarked to settle the equalization. That higher limit is frequently what makes keeping the home possible.

Do we need the separation agreement finalized first?

For the buyout program, lenders need a signed separation agreement that sets out who gets what. It's smart to involve me while it's being drafted, so the financing is confirmed to work before the numbers are locked in. Nobody wants a signed agreement the mortgage can't actually fund.

Will this stay private?

Yes. These conversations are confidential and handled with care. You can reach out before anything is decided, just to understand your options, with no obligation and no pressure either way.

Sorting the home in a separation?

Reach out for a discreet, no-obligation conversation. I'll tell you honestly what's possible and how to structure it. On your timeline.